i said, "oh, that's very nice. i'm so happy for you." >> did she tell you anything else about him? >> no. she just said that, "he seems to be, like, a nice person and, uh i'm happy." >> reporter: jayshree had never met anna's boyfriend michael. and most of anna's other friends didn't know her ex-husband, bob. retired ballerina donna ross, who had danced with the joffrey ballet in new york, was one of the few who knew both men. she found bob lacking in the social graces, someone who didn't always recognize the audience he was playing to. >> i hung out with the movers and shakers, the glitterati of manhattan. and for someone to relate to me, as though i were somebody, in a little, small, provincial town in texas, it was pretty insulting. >> and here you were, being sort of looked down on? >> uh yes. he said, "well --" as he pulled