>> some lawyers and see what we have to do. and that was it. >> the two divorced in 1985. david arranged weekend visits with john. >> how were they together? >> oh, wonderful. johnny just clung to him. they loved each other. >> and they all moved on. a couple of years later, barbara married again, michael wolff, an ex-military man like her dad, about the same age as her dad, too. >> your dad and your new husband probably saw eye-to-eye a lot. >> they sure did. they had a lot in common. they would talk a lot. >> wolff took barbara and john to live with him in arizona, but david wanted to be a part of his son's life, so he traveled out west to see the boy. >> he went up there with a friend of his and they saw johnny for three days. i got pictures of johnny in like the old western town and everything. >> and maybe it was something about the distance, said barbara. >> david and i became very good friends when i was out in arizona and we used to talk a lot. >> in fact, what she felt deep