and then the soviet union. and a long came a guy a couple years later. a guy i knew of. admired from afar. your husband who had been a prisoner of war. who had endured enormous, enormous pain and suffering. and demonstrated the code, the mccain code. people don't think much about it today. but imagine having already known the pain you were likely to endure and being offered the opportunity to go home. and saying no. in the navy, last one in, last one out. so i knew of john. and john became the navy liaison