everything away. >> he couldn't, of course, and she sat there half listening. equilibrium gone and a bad feeling. >> i was hurt and angry with him and myself and it was just unbelievable to think that those two years had been a sham. >> yes. and in fact more than one sham, a whole quilt of shams. detectives back in northern california had begun to uncover details of a double life which had been, shall we say, prodigious. >> it seemed like at every turn there was another woman this guy had some involvement with. >> it was coming out of the woodwork. >> there was quite a few of them. >> he said he was recently single. >> like pamela icles, for example, who responded to ernie's ad in 2008 in the dating section of craigslist in las vegas. she met him for drinks.