>> and what a shock that was. one message in particular from a man she'd never heard mike mention. someone named dave simmons, a man ellen believed was the reason mike was spending so much time in phoenix. >> he would talk about how satisfied he was with their sexual contact. he would be explicit as to what each had done to each other. >> so there wasn't any question what was going on here. >> no, none. >> it was january 11th, 2002, ellen says like so many nights before mike woke her for their nightly screaming match. this one was at 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning. ellen, who never directly confronted mike about anything, now told him she knew all about the aware that mike was having with dave simmons, the man from