candy, soda and give his time to her. everything else stopped. >> behind closed doors, mike and ellen's marriage was starting to unravel. ellen said mike ooem seemed jealous of her success at work. >> understand i was promoted to service manager, it basically became hurtful and he was standoffish. >> ellen says from the time elizabeth was conceived, mime mike had moved out of the bedroom permanently. >> never slept together again. >> and so mike and ellen began to live two separate lives in that dream home with their children, but still they stayed together. >> i still wanted this marriage to work. i didn't want to give up. >> that is until she learned about this secret, the big secret that would ultimately tear this family apart. >> i thought after christmas