>> what he said wasn't the sort of thing people expected to hear. >> she says i don't care where you do it, when you do it, i want it now. >> it was aunusual and not a vey emotional eulogy for reasons tom only understand, but her parents were furious. >> he had that opportunity to speak and share about the woman he so-called loved and called his eternal wife, all he did was degrade her. >> what was it like? >> it was shocking. it was unbelievable. >> as the days turned into weeks, tom remained free. ashley's parents became convinced that something about the investigation was not right. >> when i sat down and said, look, says if for some crazy