it gets me loving him and admiring him, that he admires me. and then it makes me trust his opinion and what he says about me and thinks about me. so then, as soon as he gets to that point, he flips it and calls me ugly, fat, a gold digger. >> by the way, the person she's talking to, hisham ganma. he's one of the brothers that zu you mot told police she was afraid of. it was recorded a few months before the fire, but then she was not happy about paul. not at that point, anyway. >> i have pictures that he did of the damage he did to all of my furniture. kicked in my car. somebody saw him at starbucks spit in my face on my way to work. >> but things clearly changed after that. remember, they were all lovie