she was like, you tell your dad everything? i tell my dad everything. i talk to him about guys, females, sisters, brothers. >> a lot of times chicks don't understand that because they had a mother that was always there, you know? >> and not a dad. >> yeah. like i remember when nana first came on her period, i started crying because i didn't know what to tell her, you know? but that's the things that make it more special. that's the things that bond you, that right there you know. not having that separation. that's what i've always told you. i'd rather you tell me everything than somebody else come to me and saying hey, this is what's going down, you know? >> but garcia wasn't always honest with his daughters about his criminal past. >> i told them i was a mechanic. i was working on cars, all kinds of cars and selling drugs at the same time. >> but one incident exposed them to the violent nature of his gangster lifestyle. it occurred when the three of them stopped for gas. >> we were parked in the gas line and i went in and bumped into somebody, and i drug him out of the store. and me and him were, you know, getting at it. i remember stomping the guy.