seen that we were not expecting this, so then they told us that we could bring back an airplane ticket stating he was going to leave the day after thanksgiving, because time had run out under the new administration, that trump wants everybody who has to leave out of the country, and we explained to them that he has no criminal record. they said well, he was brought here at 10 and that was his crime, that he had committed, and because the paperwork was already in process, that he had to leave the country and they picked a date after thanksgiving. then after that, we got a phone call a couple of days before thanksgiving saying they were going to extend his time due to the fact that he had no criminal record, and they wanted him to spend christmas with his family. >> cindy, this has got to be devastating. christmas, while it's good they let him stay until past christmas, how could your christmas have been? how do you talk to your kids about this? what do you do? >> we did not have a christmas