not treating her like a friend of the family. she said all along sheu has known the family for a long time. she listened to the call that the president made to sergeant la david johnson's family as a friend not as their member of congress. so the president saying now congresswoman wilson, and he's using the wacky term as we have seen him give some negative nickname to others that he views as an adversary the last couple of years of his political life. doing that now with congresswoman wilson this morning, perhaps he had been watching early morning coverage where this issue was still being talked about extensively. the president making it her representation of the democratic party, challenging the president when he was trying to console a family. it has been a back and forth, back and forth really a tense and difficult several days where we have seen issues that normally have been in a very special category, dealing with fallen american soldiers where