people are wearing, some because of the way that they are breaking with tradition. tell us about this. >> reporter: ali, we know this. let me start with who won't be attending, the name we've heard so far is congressman maxine waters. according to sources who are familiar with this house democratic caucus meeting this morning she stood up and said hey and i'm paraphrasing i'm not going to be here and urged other members not to attend if they felt they couldn't contain themselves when they watched the president speaking. about a half other democrats said it's important to attend to listen to be respectful, fight the fight after but at least go and listen to what the president has to say. that is what congressman elliot engel says he'll listen. what won't he do, ali? we found out in the last hour or two the congressman will not for the if, time in nearly 30 years stand on the aisle and shake the president's hand as he walks by. you might remember from past joint addresses to congress, whether they be state of the union addresses or addresses like this time of year, there's