not why i'm here. our forgiveness was complete as the last of our sons is organs were donated to save lives. but changes have to be made. you can't look at it and say my son was killed from an illegal hit, a helmet to helmet hit from a player that he probably never saw coming. not one flag was thrown on that play. we can't allow that to happen. we can't allow these children to think that that is okay. pund nea underneath that helmet is another human being. i think if we don't change that, there's really no point to play. but i think we have hope. i just don't believe in lip service. i think actions speak louder than words. i am in contact with the football authorities in my county and my adjoining county and they support my efforts, and i'll be addressing every athletic director in the state of new york in march and i hope that changes that we've