erich is a friend of mine. you're a friend of mine. we're all republicans. politics is a game of addition and not subtraction. at what point in this campaign do you start putting your arms around people? >> i do. i have great relationships, joe. i have great. look, this guy disinvited me. he has a failed little conference. it's not a big deal. it's not a lot of people. they were great people. i love the people because they were going crazy when they heard about it. many of them left. the fact is he disinvited me because he could get publicity for himself. do you now how many times he's been forced to apologize for things he said? he disinvited me to get publicity but it worked out and i had a semifree evening which wasn't so bad. >> let's try a different angle. i want to move on and talk about women. more and more women are bread winners and/or vital parts of