it's obvious. for so many business reasons. it's not about -- your wife is a woman. that's good. >> new studies show that women are the head of households. more women are head of households. more women are -- >> make the decisions, yes. >> because they take care of men and children. women are important. >> it's just not really that hard. >> it's not. i think you have some very clumsy people that need to learn how to speak on the issue. and they haven't done very well yet. mike halperin, final thoughts? >> look, i think you want to show strength in this debate, you also want to show likability and i think you want to show command. trump throws off a lot the dynamics. i think not just physically but in terms of the fox moderateors, he'll be the center of attention. you need to make an impression to ni. for almost everybody up there, even for bush and walker, people like marco rubio and people like ben carson this is their chance.