unpunished. >> most of the time you don't have a video that shows you what happened. >> i've talked to prosecutors. we heard janay say she did something wrong, too. i talked to a prosecutor who said that's improper. that needs to be reformed. >> that she was arrested? what's the best practice on that? >> we hear from women who say they were arrested sometimes even defending themselves. we know it's possible. we really encourage anyone who reaches out to us to have that conversation about, if violence breaks out, what's the safest thing to do. there are many instances where the victim in the relationship actually gets arrested because she threw something at him. she hit him. she spit at him, whatever that might be. there can be repercussions for that. we want to educate people about that. >> thank you both. really appreciate it. we'llb right back.