but mostly by not being sorry. that stirred a lot of debate online and a lot of ire for its oversimplification of women's problems in the office, at home or in society in general. it raised a question that's been batted around over the last year, whether women's empowerment involves telling them to fix themselves, lean in, stop banning sorry, ban the word boss see. more needs to be done to change workplace norms and behavior toward women as in the spore raddic all women campaign. a lot i want to get into here. joining me to discuss all of it is irin car moan of msnbc.com and el joy williams, president of the brooklyn chapter of the naacp. ladies, it's just an ad, not that big a deal. something about it irritated me. a fu things like lean in, the confidence code book which i really enjoyed. there's this sense that, if