different approaches to matrimony. >> what happened to your wife? >> she didn't want to get a divorce, but i divorced her anyway because i wanted her to move on with her life. i got so much time now, 17 1/2 years. i still got parole but it's hard telling when i'll make it. i just wanted her to move on with her life. >> in contrast, bishop was receiving letters and occasional visits from both his wife and an ex-girlfriend. >> does your wife know about the other woman? >> she knows about her. she's known about her for a long time. she knows it's not a big deal. she knows i love her and she's the one i want to be with. >> you have women fighting over you. come on, you're in prison. >> sun shines on a dog's ass some days. >> but the reality is neither man will actually be with a woman for a long time. >> how do you deal with that? you know, you've got 17 years. how do you deal with that? >> we don't have a choice in here or nothing unless you turn gay. >> right. >> i don't turn gay. every now and then i might masturbate in the shower, i'm