definitely an absence. >> exactly who you be girl ♪ ♪ you can be my world, girl >> what made you write that? >> just thinking of you. deep thoughts. you know, when it comes to music and us as far as in a relationship, i want all that to intertwine, especially how the lord in our life, too. i think that's what's really going bring us and keep us together anyway. >> there's only one way that that's going to happen. >> what's that? >> serious relationship with god first. and then everything else falls into place. >> yeah. >> that needs to be number one relationship. seriously -- >> you're a believer. >> seriously, don't cut me off. >> i know. >> i'm telling you the truth. >> i know. >> that needs to be number one. i know that's a big flipflop from what people might be used to with you. nobody is saying you're going to turn around and be a minister. you just need to have that relationship.