but she and danica were already deeply involved when they shared their story with us. >> we've got a really strong bond. you know, i mean, it ain't all about sex. it's a real marriage of the heart for us. you know, it may not be lawful or, you know -- but to us it's real. >> at the time of the shoot jennifer's confinement prohibited any contact with danica. their feelings about being separated for the past ten days were palpable. >> i was writing her last night. i said, "hey, sexy lady. girl, you drive me crazy." >> how have i been spending my days? crying. looking at pictures and crying. >> and i said, "i feel so dead inside without you." and i said, "my eyes" -- i said "my eyes don't shine and everything looks so gray." >> today was the first day i've smiled and that's because i seen her through a crack in the top of a window. >> the only chance they have of