should stay with the private life. >> good luck with that. >> how come, what is the new line. it used to be, gene, it was sex plus, you didn't just write about it, if a guy is gay you didn't bring it up, you didn't out people. you didn't out girlfriends unless there was a lobbyist or someone in the office place that broke the rules. >> things have changed, the big change started with gary hartmann, he said follow me, right? and so -- >> and then your colleagues said -- have you ever cheated on your wife. you sent back journalism 20 years with that question. that went on. >> i think the ball has moved, even in france. can you imagine anyone asking that question at a press conference. we had a whole second family, and so i think attitudeses have changed over there, it may have something too do with the way the media works now, with the instantaneous nature of the