decide. you don't decide. ask them what are they concerned about. they will tell you, kristen, they will tell you, i don't want another child to go hungry. i don't want another child to have a holiday without a gift. i don't want a child to go homeless. address the needs by engaging children in what they are interested in. >> wendy spencer, thank you so much. we appreciate it. hope you have a great holiday. >> thank you, kristen. there was a big celebration on the "today" show set this morning. matt lauer reunited with jane pauley and brian gumbel for his birthday. even though he couldn't be there in person al made sure his gift was delivered. check it out. >> i wanted to give you something practical. carson daley helping me out. he's got something for you to help you with your look. carson, if you could bring that in. >> i've got it for you here. >> just for men. >> carson, really? al just called it in.