>> yeah. extremely. >> you know? and no parent -- no normal healthy parent would ever want their child to go through that. >> did any of y'all tell your parents this story? >> i just started talking to my parents about the internship after reading the blog. >> you know, a lot of people told me that they don't want to tell their parents what happened because they don't want their parents to feel guilty for sending them there or for not -- you know, they don't want their parents to know what they went through because it's too heartwrenching. you know, i think that's why i write the blog, too, because there are a lot of stephanies out there and a lot of hollies and a lot of micahs. and none of us deserved to be treated that way. >> i understand some people have felt really hurt. their negative experience may be because they so desperately don't want a "in your face" challenge that they are going to say, well, that's negative. why would you ask me to do that