remember, sex is a little nasty. i don't want your dad to find stuff in his bed. >> rolando, what should happen to you? >> i don't know. oh, my god. >> don't you see something wrong with a grown adult, a sergeant in the army, coming over to meet a 14-year-old girl? >> i will get counseling, sir, i swear. >> why should i believe that? >> i promise you. with my life. >> but what happens to him legally is not up to me. his sexual online chat with someone he thought was 14 is enough to get him charged with a felony. do you ever watch television? >> yes, sir. >> did you ever watch "dateline nbc"? >> yes. with the cops and everything, i know. >> you ever see the "to catch a predator" show? >> yes. i'm not a predator, sir. i swear. >> i'm chris hansen with "dateline nbc." we're doing a story. >> oh, my god. >> if there's anything else you'd like to say, otherwise you're free to walk right out of this house.