internally they are my stiffest critics but also my best supporters whenever i need them, they are always there. >> harold? >> your parents, obviously, did a phenomenal job ve to your own kids and you you see the next g. you talk about the cousins are close. >> you know the famous phillip larkin poem about your parents f-ing you up, and then you do it to your kids and add a few things. i've done a few things. read to my kids at night. make sure that they work hard. make sure that they don't take any defeat as final. just get up, brush yourself off and keep going, because hard work is probably the most important thing that my parents caught us. it's not -- i say this over and over again. when we graduated from high school, there is no one who would have said those emanuel boys, they're going to be so great. >> you say in the book that everybody looked at you guys as