underlying things here too is it illustrates what i was talking about, right? so i am speaking for millions of survivors out there and i'm saying that there is a problem of rape culture and attacks on women and then i'm attacked. and i think illustrates that we do have a problem. we need to talk to young men about respect, bodily autonomy and we need to talk to them about bistandard intervention. there are organizations that are already doing this that i cited in the interview. they are already doing this work. i didn't make this up. i'm not the only one saying it. i just was in the biggest forum making that point. >> and so much of the root of it is the basic right of women to control their own bodies and their access to health care. and we need enempathetic and engaged government, not one in our bedrooms and not all this transvaginal ultrasound which governors and states say get the government off your back. they want it on your back in these areas. so it's a really difficult picture, ed.