because they are married? what are you going do? it's disrespectful for the people who can't get married or don't want to get married. to force it, i understand what he's trying to do. i don't know that in practice it works. i think it's a moment which, you know, he can come as a liberal and join as a conservative. >> it's interesting. there's multiple president obamas. there's the one doing the bully pulpit, which he does in church rather than i'm here to make a policy speech. it felt uncomfortable to me in this moment. >> the president always try anglated being of the left and carve out space in the center. he's absorbed the rhetoric of the right. the trickle down economics and