become ever more important. >> one interesting name is michelle who would become the first woman secretary of defense. with all the really disturbing news we have heard of increased sexual assaults in the military and whether chuck hagel would implement don't ask don't tell. is that a power symbol? she was qualified. >> i think so especially when you look at the ever changing military. when you look at now that don't ask don't tell is gone, the amount of women in the military and the problems that goes to the point you were talking about which is things go ignored because it doesn't affect those in charge. when people are so surprised at things. you are surprised because you haven't lived it. when you have that voice in the conversation people go wow, sorry i didn't think about it.