profound -- one of the things that has come through this language is a profound lack of thought toward what -- what women's lives are actually like, not just girl stuff, life stuff. how you take care of yourself. thus, how you take care of your family. how you get your job and go to your job and do your job and earn your money and spend it. they haven't -- that stuff clearly, the basics of female life in this country are not understood or considered by a lot of these guys we've heard talking. >> or cared about. >> that's part of why you see the minization of it and in a sense push women from away from it by not being so girly. >> if there's an agenda item or two agenda items that women should be thinking about as they head to the polls on tuesday, what should those agenda items be? >> i think the over arching theme that the president talks about so beautifully, are we going to go forward with him or backwards with mitt romney? and that covers the whole