stabbed to death. >> dear heather, i can't put these thoughts into motion anymore. i suppressed so much. now your parents think i abused and beat you on multiple occasions and now your friends think i controlled and forced you to be with me. i am so far from abusive, i find it beyond belief how i wind up where i am. i never wanted anything other than your love. i never would have hurt you. yet you are dead and i might as well be. >> but debbie norris said bean is a liar. >> i know that heather was beaten by him at least four times. four times that were pretty bad. one time she ended up going to the hospital after a beating. two of those beatings, she pressed charges and he was arrested on one charge.