most women, most mothers i've met who need help from the government want jobs. they want to be able to take care of their families on their own. they are proud women. that's the thing that seems to be completely missing from this discussion with mitt romney. he is talking about them, it makes me think of my mom. my mom raised her daughters this way. he said, don't marry him until you see how he treats the waitress. how we treat the people we're allowed to mistreat is the measure of who we are as human beings. i've been thinking about my mom in the last few days as i listens to mitt romney talk. >> that's a profound way to think about society. i'm not sure we're passing the waiter test. as a society. connie schultz, pulitzer prize winning syndicated columnist. just an amazing voice. you should be reading her column, absolutely. thanks so much for joining us tonight. >> thank you, chris. if you're a fan of this show, first of all, thank you for watching, it is much appreciated. also stay tuned because tonight we will have your soon to be favorite story ever about getting out of a traffic ticket. i promise. it's coming up.