dealing with shame and stigma and compressingok xdthemselves. the experiences faced byok ñrlb are at the core of this. i want to look at your "it gets better" video for just a momentd >> okay. >> hi. this is margaret cho. i want to talk to all the gay teens out there who feel alone, who feelñ1 bullied. who feel like takinge1 their ow life might be an answer. well, it's çónot. it's noták i want to tell you that you'reo not alone and i was bullied so much when i was a kid and so much as a teenager and there were many, many times that i wanted to take myçó own life. but don't do it. we need you. the world cannot go on without you. stay with us. we love you so much. >> i love that it gets better project. >> yes. >> this idea of people just pausing and saying what needs to be said and what often is not said. what else can we do sna how can