i have a daughter in her 20s, and obviously we had the conversations because we live in the real world, and i am happy about birth control as an institution, and i think it's a right and it's a life reality. for him to attack you on this because you think that should be part of health insurance, are you stunned or what? health insurance, we're talking an insurance issue here. >> and it was pretty surprising. i appreciate your use of the world reality, because we are talking about federal government policy, and that has to be focused on reality, and not ideology. it's something we need to have to prevent terrible consequences and unintended pregnancies, and that's reality. >> you don't have to make the case i make, and it reduces the number of abortions in this country, and it's the reason we don't have as many or more. and i want to go to joan on this. joan, the republican party is not an evil party or made up of