whitney's family drove down from michigan to attend. on the highway you passed the scene of the accident. only this time there are five crosses on the side of the road. what did you do? >> i just remember getting out and, you know, looking at it. you could see the big crevices in the median that had been torn up by the truck coming across. and it was -- it was just one of those sombering times where you just kind of sit there and just -- the reality of it was there. >> did you pray together then? >> yes, we did. i remember getting out and heading over there, and we all put our arms around each other and just stood there looking at that memorial. someone had put together an array of crosses, five crosses. and it was just -- it was, it was just a very sobering time. >> before the service, they had dinner at the home of the university's president.