i decided to ask for something, too. i didn't get it. >> you took what was yours. if they don't give it to you, you take it. >> you know what i love? >> what? >> how uncomfortable they look. look at that. >> talk amongst yourselves. >> how does it feel, guys? any contributions? >> think of the gender break. men sometimes don't ask for things, too. >> really? >> yeah. to me, hoda, you have been a great mentor to me. don't settle for safe. >> yeah, yeah, yeah. >> i think that's a lot of good advice. you had that experience and a lot of other people we pray won't have that experience. you have to be proactive. clearly, it's what propelled you. >> guys are quick to say to the boss, look what i did. >> yeah.