instinctively collaborative, tend to be seeing all the obstacles they have to get around, there's an imaginative perception women have that helps them in in ter personal relationship but can defeat them -- >> wait a minute. >> if i do x -- >> i managed thousands of men and women. it's very very simple. every oober successful person that tends to be a man has what i call this naive sense of entitlement. women in the dna don't have it. if you want to understand the difference between men and women in the workplace, watch a saturday morning tv commercial. every little girl's game or commercial has four girls sitting around the table playing collaboratively. every little boy's commercial saying, i won. we, every alpha male i managed, they want more, how big is their office and paycheck. women, in the dna, socialization process, not built in