>> the advocacy for me was always overblown. then you get trapped into the i don't want to hurt your feeling. any time anyone has ever said to me, oh, my gosh, you guys would be perfect for each other, they were always dead wrong. but i think proximity is more important. when you go to weddings or parties, you meet someone there. let it happen naturally. you don't want your dad to be, oh, honey. greg: you would be a catch at a funeral. final thoughts up next. none of your ideas make eyecare more frustrating,