narcissism. we have had a narcissistic turn in this country for 30 to 40 years. when i worked in the hospital i saw all kinds of narcissistic. cluster b is all we saw 100 percent of the time. sociopath, narcissist border wall. if you are a parent, your child is an extension of you and you cannot stand to see them uncomfortable. and so you have to save them from every discomfort, what their achievements are are your achievements are. you have to make sure they achieve. it's a freakin' mess. brian: tell you what, tomi, on top of that, the daughter lori loughlin's daughter when she gets word that her mom is caught up on this scandal and doesn't belong at usc. she is on a yacht one of the usc trustees worth $100 million. the yacht. >> doesn't surprise me at all. again, this is bigger than just a scandal. this is hollywood in general. we idolize these people and