it is very concrete. we are celebrating that god came to give us the chance at new life. we are all fallen, we are all sinners, and god says i once to reconcile with you. jillian: hearing those words it is important not just on christmas but often times throughout life, other things people can do besides read the bible that people can do as a family. >> let me tell you what my family did. i the third of 7. it is chaos at christmas. we did some simple things i will never forget. one is christmas morning, we are waiting at the top of the stairs. jillian: come down and see what santa got. >> my dad gave the word, we come running down and underneath the tree, my mom and dad brought us over to the nativity scene.