in the gym and were taking photos that highlighted your butt. jedediah: i said the grass isn't green. it just has filters on it. this is not a preachy book. it is i made myself look like an idiot a lot open social media. i thought i had to keep up with water one * else is doing. i took that advice from a high-level people in the industry. at some point realized i'm not going to get rid of my social media. but i'm going to scale it back and change the way i view it. i'm going to follow a lot less people on instagram. they will be people i know and love. howie: you talk about a boyfriend who was constantly on his blackberry years ago and one day you looked at his phone you