steve: the rest is history. ainsley: when you fell in love it changed your life you say? >> it did. ainsley: in what way. >> i found a girl or a girl found me i think more likely kelly nash i method through petty jenkins. petty was working on a film about breast cancer called five on the lifetime network. i was watching this incredible thing that patty was working on. there was a girl sitting in the lobby of this hospitals. and i said who is that? she said oh, that's kelly nash. i said well, what does she do? she is a ph.d. psychologist but she had breast cancer buffer she is doing pretty good. i said well, do you have her email? and petty looked at me funny, i don't do that she says really? i said yeah, do you have her email? tell her maybe i should go to lunch or something. we eventually got together and the rest has kind of been a life changing experience. i lost her a year and a half after we were together though. and as a result of that, making a promise to her to