talk about that.y. >> okay. >> charles: when dan was born, i wrote a column about his birth. and it was a good column. and it was nice. and then when he was one, i wrote one on his firstth birthday. and then i realized i'm never going to do this again. this is using him. this is going to be his vision of himself through my eyes. it.i simply won't do i never wanted to use personal relationships as material. >> when i first met him and i said, i didn't know. and i said, charles, this isw. embarrassing.hi