nastiness and he spoke in a low voice and he spoke see eloquently and never talked about his disabilities. he never wanted to be graded on a curve. charles didn't want people to say he overcame so much and he was good. he wanted to be judged by the same standards and his legacy will live on. >> melissa: one of the things that is a propoe to him and the struggle and everybody screaming at each other. he talked about not crushing the other person but persuading them of your idea. almost no one tries to do that now. they try to win. not persuade. he said you have to figure out what the other person believes and try to draw a line in to what they believe and in by showing them the logical sequence. it is so profound given what is