>> what do you say to people who say you are wearing tiny outfits and dancing on the field, maybe you are getting what you signed up for, what you say up to that? >> you cannot blame our outfits for how we are treated or respected. women do not have to be modest to be respected. it's 2018, as far as the outfits, where the same outfits in college, high school, we have tight pants or when we compete at dance competitions, when we grow up in studios, we have two pieces. it looks like a swimsuit. so that is just dance attire, it is not seen as anything in college or high school or at a dance competition. >> martha: thank you very much. good to see you both. good luck to you. the journey began when this couple was on their trip to hawaii, but everything changed when her husband suddenly suffered a horrible setback. and the couple was forced to learn how to start over together from the very beginning.