him presents for his birthday. so my husband and i learned about that foundation early this year in february and we thought wow, what an awesome thing. we did a great job raises our son that here for his birthday he is asking for people to donate to this foundation. that really has the motto that we tried to teach our kids as they were growing up. you know, stand up, be present. be that person that is going to do the right thing. so we -- you know, we donated money instead of sending him a birthday present. so when it came time for us to decide what we wanted to put on the head stone, we wanted it to speak to what happened without just saying bluntly majory stoneman. that motto really ties into how chris lived his life. so let's use that so that's how we decided to use it.