their career, and it's a very real fear in this environment right now. do you think that this is the moment when a lot of this changes? one we kind of leave this era behind, is that possible? >> yes, if we do it carefully and thoughtfully. there is a huge extreme between the harvey weinstein example of predatory harassment onto a simple common. >> martha: a wide range. >> i'm quick to say to a colleague of mine, you look nice today, male or female. you don't want that to stop. there are gradients. >> martha: you don't want to live in a world where you can't say that. the pendulum could swing too far, i understand what you're saying. after leave it there, but thank you so much for joining us tonight. former congresswoman mary bono. if we want to take you to this life picture before we pass it f to tucker. this is life at the airbase in japan were president trump is scheduled to take off any minute