it's the widow and the mother of sergeant johnson. that's what matters here and i think it should be a private moment, but the white house has folks listening in on their end. the mother and the widow of sergeant johnson want to have family and friends, congresswoman. if they want to have bozo the clown sitting in on the call. >> harris: i think it's what people share once they have been privy to that information. all of this came to a head, he told us about in your portion of all of this, i know john mccain, senator mccain is pushing to get the details on a mission that apparently wasn't widely known. but all of this now comes to a head because now you have this congresswoman who is upping the ante at every point. i don't want to press too hard about your response to this because it isn't so much what she says, is the fact that she's joking. this is congresswoman wilson