asked was the day you left the white house had to be the worst day of your life. my answer was no, the worst days of my life were when i held dying marines in my arms and had to write to the families. and then see them after i came back myself. what presidents go through in expressing their condolences is such a personal and private and difficult thing i find it stunning that somebody could criticize the president for doing what he did. >> i don't know how you feel about this but the second the congresswoman spoke about this, i feel about this today, if the wife had something to say let her be one to say. i don't know why you are putting yourself in position to be the middle person and causing these emotions and this is a rough time for all four of those families. >> she saw an opportunity to get publicity and now she is a rock