the selections tha levies that she taught me as a single mom to mackenzie mize my intelligence and spiritual gifts as a pageant girl, rich girl we didn't have know money. she got really creative about how to present to the world in a way that said, you know, i was here to be taken seriously as a student and young woman. and preparing for success. ainsley: she wanted to give you a better life. >> literally she did so much, ainsley, to make sure i was best positioned. ainsley: any push back for the snittle. >> a lot. i wrote about it in the book. publishers are like are you first book beauty queen turned lawyer do you want to go with that? i said yeah. as i called the introduction pretty isn't a dirty word. it's not that it's at the exclusion of anything else. young women have to be smart and prepared and substantive more so than anything else. but we don't have to run away from our femininity and woman hood and if you can marry the two of those, i think we can do whatever we want. steve: how would you like to read a little excerpt. >> yes. thank you so much for it.