she would find a way to happiness that didn't necessarily involve marrying anybody. she was an extraordinarily accomplished and evolved person by the time she died. you know, the places in her own life where she found fulfillment, strength and inspiration was in her work, not necessarily in her important relationships. >> neil: very well-put, patrick. thanks for taking the time. the former private secretary to princess diana, dead 20 years ago today. more after this. this is crabfest at red lobster. dive into the classic crab lover's dream or new dueling crab legs with dungeness and snow crab. only during crabfest. now this is seafood. and hurry in to enjoy our new crab melt, part of our seafood lover's lunch weekdays just $9.99